In life, we had many options to do especially in life that experience too much pain, too much happiness and even less pain and less happiness. When someone hurt us, our minds really dictate us to do some revenge, do put anger in our minds and hearts. But don't you think that someone hurt you, also hurt because of the mistakes done? Won't we forgive and just forget everything and start over again? There is always a choice and the choice depends on you. Whether you will forgive and don't forget but let it be as a lesson or you will forgive and forget or you will not forgive and forgive or you will not forgive but forget everything.
You always have a choice. So, think wisely.